I think that children should carry a burden. As long as its not a large burden. Example taking out the trash isn’t too big. What’s big is having to support family, trying to get a job or career and trying to hold it too. That should be held by a strong minded adults who can keep it together during any problem. Children like Traquita’s nephew, that’s not a big burden. It’s not such huge problem like trying to go to college and get a job.